Remember to balance black and white
Whether this is
your situations,
your attitude,
your relatioships
Compliments and criticism
Encouragement and challenges
Remember a true friend ,
is not one,
who only supports and encourages you
through empathy and care.
But one ,
who is also honest and open with you
by challenging you and telling you,
at times where you do wrong
Sometimes you are not aware of what you are doing to yourself
Sometimes you will only become aware,
when you are made aware of it.
Through the help of others followed by your own reflection
A true friend will not just keep his eyes closed
And let you carry on causing harm to yourself
And let you carry on causing more pain into your life
Indirectly or directly
Remember that we all have agreements and disagreements
So if you disagree with what I agree on,
It is ok
But please take few minutes to stop and think,
whether there was some truth in what I said
Please stop seeing everything in black and white
Please stop keeping your eyes closed in denial
Please stop reacting to words as an offense
And try instead to use those
as a positive way for your growth
